Monday, January 31, 2011

Rodeo!

My brother surprised us with a call on Sunday to see if we'd like to go to the Professional Bull Riding event downtown.  He had been given a set of tickets from a client company and thought we'd enjoy going.  We jumped at the opportunity!  We all had a great time and Ryker loved it!  It was so nice to hang with Dave and Kate.   Plus Ryker got some good Aunt and Uncle bonding time in.  We went to dinner at Texas Roadhouse afterwards and ran into my cousin, Abby, and her fiance, Phill.  Turns out, they were at the rodeo too!  Too funny! 
Ryker sitting with Uncle Dave and taking it all in.  He would stand up on his seat and start clapping the minute every rider came out.  Then, when they were done, he would start saying, "I want more bulls."  He LOVED it!

The rodeo clown was pretty funny.  He was dancing to "Party in the USA" here.

The Three of Us

This is the Brazilian who won. This was the 4th week of the tour and so far a Brazilian has won every week. This guy competed with a broken ankle.  Those bull riders are a little crazy!  Kate and I kept singing, "Mamas Don't Let Your Babies Grow Up to Be Cowboys"
Uncle Dave kept playing with Ryker's hair and he was dying laughing!

Some of the local flavor...This kid was sitting across from us and I couldn't resist snapping a pic of those boots!  Yes, that is a gator head on the toe of that boot!  Eek!

Ryker fell asleep while we waited for our table.  He laid down in the booth with Robert and I during dinner.  He slept most of the meal which was nice and quiet for us adults! ;-)

Thanks for a great afternoon Dave!

Girl's Night Out

Saturday was Girl's Night Out for me.  Emily, Katie, Christy, and I had dinner at Some Guys Pizza.  It was delicious!  We celebrated Dad's birthday there back in August and I've been wanting to go back ever since.  I had the Jerk Chicken Pizza which was awesome and a great dinner salad.  It was so good I could go back tomorrow!  After dinner, we headed over to Starbucks for more girl time.  We just sat and talked and laughed and enjoyed time together.

Katie, Christy, and Emily

A kind patron offered to take a picture of all of us..Thank you sir!

Monkey Boy

Aunt Karen gave Ryker some new animal hoodie towels.  He has a new lion one and a monkey one.  He is particularly in love with his monkey towel.  It has a tail on the back that bounces back when you pull on it.  He loves to bounce around in his towel after bath time.  In fact, most times, I think the towel may be one of the reasons he wants to take a bath in the first place!
I'll confess, we took several shots because he kept flashing me! haha!

The cute little tail!

A close-up

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Nathan Troy Spangler

I'M OFFICIALLY AN AUNT!!!!

Nathan Troy Spangler was born January 18th at 10:20 AM.  He was 9 lbs. 3 oz. and 22 inches long.  Because of my strep throat and Ryker's surgery, we weren't able to visit until yesterday.  Robert went up to the hospital the day he arrived but didn't get many good pictures on his phone.  I wanted to wait and post until I had some good pictures to show off how cute he is! :-)
Cuddling with Mommy

Sleeping so sweetly

He was starting to wake up some here.  This is when Ryker decided he was a giraffe because he was making eating motions with his mouth.  Michelle and I couldn't figure out why he was saying it until he said, "Baby Nafan like a giraffe.  He say, 'Ummm, umm, umm.'"  (which is Ryker's eating sound.  He did this while moving his head around like Nathan was doing and said it was like a giraffe eating leaves out of the trees.)  After we understood where he was coming from it was pretty amusing.  Beforehand, I thought he'd fallen off his rocker! haha!

Aunt Chelle sent a picture of Nathan to us today and when I showed Ryker, he said, "That Baby Nafan.  That my favorite."  So sweet!

Follow Up with the Surgeon

Wednesday was Ryker's follow up appointment with his surgeon.  We headed down to Riley in the afternoon.  Dr. Kaefer said everything looked great!  In fact, he usually has most patients come back again in 2 months, but Ryker looked so good, he doesn't have to come back at all!  He also lifted all of his restrictions.  I told Ryker that meant he could ride his Mickey Mouse train again and he smiled so big and told the nurse and doctor, "I ride my Mickey Mouse train all day!"  They got a kick out of his excitement.  I'm relieved too.  It was stressful having to watch his every move to make sure he wasn't doing anything taboo.  I had read online sometimes they make you wait 3 weeks before lifting restrictions, so we were thrilled to not have to wait anymore!  Yay for a fast recovery!

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Bandages Are Off!

We were told Ryker could take a bath on Saturday and that the water should make the bandage over his sutures come off.  So, after Robert got home late Saturday night, we put Ryker in the tub.  He was swimming around and having fun, but the bandage was sticking right on there.  The nurse said you might have to tug to get it going at first.  I started to peel back one side and that's when all hell broke loose!  Ryker started freaking out!  He was screaming and crying, saying it hurt.  After trying to get him calmed down to a point where I could even look at it, we gave up.  I just finished bathing him (very quickly!) and got him out of there.  He kept saying, "No, you not touch it!  Leave it there!  It hurts!"  It was awful!  We just put the tape back over the area I'd peeled it from and got him ready for bed.  It stuck back up there pretty well, so we left it until yesterday.  It had started to lose its stickiness on the side I'd peeled away, so I put him in the bath again.  He still threw a fit, but it came off pretty easily.  Once it was over, he was fine.  I think he was just worried it would hurt like it did before.  The scars look really good and seem to be healing well.  We go back down to Riley to see his surgeon today for a follow up.  I'm anxious to hear what he thinks and see if any of his restrictions will be lifted.  I have to follow him around like a hawk right now to keep him from doing stuff he's not supposed to.  For example, Robert had to get him off his ride-on Mickey train last night.  Robert brought him out to have me explain why he couldn't ride and when he could again.  I told him we could ask Dr. Kaefer today.  He was so bummed though.  He does this thing where he slumps his shoulders forward, hangs his head, and makes a pouty face with his lips.  It's pretty pathetic and funny at the same time.

Pizza with the Fam

Last Saturday, Mom and Dad called to ask if we wanted to meet them at Pizza King for dinner.  Grandma, Grandpa, Aunt Karen, Jo, Mom, Dad, Uncle Brian, Aunt Diane, Mike, Jalyn, Ashlyn, and Carter had all just finished watching my cousin play a college basketball game at Marian University and were heading out to eat.  Robert was still up at the drill center, so Ryker and I quickly got ready and headed out.  We had been home cleaning all day to get ready for Sunday's open house, so it was nice to get out of the house.  Plus, Pizza King is oh-so-yummy!  Here are a few pictures of Ryker and Ashlyn playing.
They really liked having their own booth

Ashlyn smiling so sweetly and Ryker, well, not!  He was having some major hat hair!

Ryker's Interview

A friend of mine did this on her blog and it was pretty funny, so I thought I'd give Ryker a chance.  They are pretty random responses!  Here are his answers:

1. What is something Mommy always says to you?
Pats.

2. What makes Mommy happy?
Opening stuff.

3. What makes Mommy sad?
I don't know.

4. How does Mommy make you laugh?
*He fake laughed, then said, "Like that."

5. What was Mommy like as a child?
I don't know.

6. How old is Mommy?
2

7. How tall is Mommy?
Big

8. What is Mommy's favorite thing to do?
Give me toys.

9. What does Mommy do when you're not around?
*Laid his head down and fake snored.*

10. If Mommy becomes famous, what will it be for?
Tucker boy.

11. What is Mommy really good at?
*No response.*

12. What is Mommy not very good at?
Tucker

13. What does Mommy do for her job?
Pick up sticks.

14. What is Mommy's favorite food?
French fries and chickies (chicken nuggets.)

15. What makes you proud of Mommy?
She lets me eat french fries too.

16. If Mommy were a cartoon character, who would she be?
Dora

17. What do you and Mommy do together?
Smile.

18. How are you and Mommy the same?
We're both 2.

19. How are you and Mommy different?
*No response.*

20. How do you know Mommy loves you?
You pick up after me.

21. Where is Mommy's favorite place to go?
The door.

I asked these questions last night while Robert was home.  Afterwards, Ryker ran off to play and Robert and I looked at each other and just started laughing.  I said, "It was like interviewing a 2-year-old!"  It was pretty amusing!

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Update and Conversation

Lots of people have been asking how Ryker's recovery is going.  He is doing really well!  In fact, you would never know he had anything done.  The hardest thing is keeping him from doing things he's not supposed to.  The pain medication has made bowel movements a bit elusive/difficult, so we started him on some Miralax yesterday and it seems to be helping some.  The bruising and swelling are almost gone and the sutures look good.  He can finally take a bath Saturday and the dressings, etc. should dissolve then.  I know he'll be ready to get that stuff off and I'll be ready for a less stinky kid!  I've been wiping him down with baby wipes, etc. but it just doesn't cut it!  Plus, the part of his body that really needs washed is the part we can't touch anyway! 

So, Ryker and I had this conversation earlier this week while out to lunch that I thought was pretty funny.  One of the reasons I started this blog was to write down the little things so I wouldn't forget them.  Unfortunately, I haven't always done a good job of it!  Anyway, I will preface this by saying we eat lots of soup here. Lots of soup that involves dipping tortilla chips in...such as taco soup, white chili, chicken tortilla soup, etc.  So, here is the conversation from Qdoba the other day:

Ryker: "I need soup."

Me: "What for?"

Ryker: "I need to dip my chip in soup." Then makes dipping motion and says, "Um, um, um!" (which is his eating sound)

Me:  "We don't have soup."

Ryker: "Get some."

Me: "Where?"

Ryker:  Points to the line where we ordered our food.

Me (lying):  "They don't have soup here."

Ryker: "Hmmm, I need to go to the grocery store and get some soup."

Anyway, after much convincing that chips can still be yummy without dipping them in something, he finished his meal and we finished our errands.  I swear, this kid cracks me up!  You never know quite what he's going to say!

P.S.- I'm starting to look a preschools for little man for the fall.  Hardest part is, I'm not sure where we'll be living!  If we're still in this house, it'll be one set of schools.  If we're in New Pal, a totally different set of schools.  If any of you have any suggestions on preschools near here or in New Pal, I would greatly appreciate recommendations!

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Ryker's Surgery

We've had a crazy few days at the Brown Household.  I started feeling sick Saturday night.  I slept terrible all night and eventually just got up at 6 am to drink some hot tea in hopes it would soothe my throat.  I was miserable all day Sunday with a fever, sore throat, and throwing up everything, even liquids.  I was able to get into the doctor first thing Monday morning.  They swabbed me for strep and sure enough, it was positive.  I've never had strep before, but I gotta say, it's no fun!  The doctor also gave me some meds for the nausea which was greatly appreciated as it kicked in on our drive to the hospital for Ryker's surgery.  I'd also like to thank my amazing husband for helping out all weekend.  He took care of Ryker and got the house ready for a showing we had yesterday afternoon too. 

OK, so on to the important stuff- the surgery!  We were scheduled to arrive at Clarian West in Avon at 11:30.  We quickly made it through registration and headed straight upstairs to the surgery unit.  Papaw surprised us and came.  Dad does hospital sales and tried to tell Mom he was just coming to check on some stuff for work, but he was really there to keep an eye on his boy.  ;-) He also kept Mom updated throughout the day.  Nana was a little nervous to say the least!  Ryker did surprisingly well with no food or drink for the majority of the morning, but by noon as we were headed upstairs, he was over it!  He had a complete meltdown and was crying so hard!  Of course, this was right as they called us back to begin his prep work.  Robert had to stand on the scale with him and then without to get his weight because he wasn't having it!

Here he is in his pajamas once we got him calmed down a bit...clearly still not happy though!

Showing me his star socks...not that impressed at the time, but later thought they were pretty cool.

His surgery was scheduled for 1:00, but that time came and went and he still hadn't been taken back.  He was getting very restless and hungry!  We managed to keep him entertained though.


We explored the room a bit and found a mirror that folded up out of a drawer.  It was pretty popular.

He also wanted his blood pressure and pulse read again.  The wonderful nurse was happy to oblige.

He played dinosaurs with Daddy too.

His surgeon, Dr. Kaefer came back around 1:30 and explained that were being held up by a hip procedure that was going on in the room they booked for Ryker.  He talked us through the procedure again and put our minds at ease (especially Robert-since he had never even met him!)  Next, the anesthesiologist came back and talked us through his portion of the procedure.  He brought a mask to the room and told Ryker he would let him choose a flavored lip balm to rub on the inside of the mask and then all he had to do was smell it in order to take his special nap.  Ryker chose grape and the doctor put it in there and let Ryker smell it.  He took several deep breaths and said, "Hey, this not working!"  because he wasn't falling asleep.  It was pretty funny!  The doctor started laughing and said, "That's a pretty smart kid."  Of course, Robert decided that was his favorite doctor of the day!  haha!  They finally took him back a little after 2:00.  Thankfully, he went to the nurse pretty well and let her carry him back there.  All he took was one of his dinosaurs.  We never heard a peep out of him!  I was so proud of him, but especially of myself!  I didn't even cry!  Yay me!  We went downstairs and grabbed a bite to eat with Dad to distract us.  I, thankfully, was able to keep my lunch down and felt much better after I'd eaten.  It was great having Dad there.  He really distracted us from worrying and stewing over what was going on upstairs.  We headed back up to the waiting area.  The procedure was supposed to take about 45 minutes, so at 3:15 I started getting a little worried. Thankfully, Dr. Kaefer came out a couple minutes later to update us.  He said everything went great and Ryker was a trooper. They called us back a few minutes later and said he was still sleeping.  This is what we saw when we walked in:

Talk about breaking your heart!

So, I did cry here I'm not gonna lie.  He just looked so sad and defenseless!  He was so sweaty and red in the face!  Poor guy soaked his pillow by the time he woke up.

The nurses kept telling us to be prepared for him to be very unhappy when he woke up, so we were ready for a bit of a battle, but he just woke up like he would from a nap and sat right up.

He downed his entire thing of juice in about 5 seconds flat!  I'm sure his throat was sore from being intubated.  Thankfully, they used a different tube than they normally do.  It's more flexible and doesn't go as far down into his body.  It's supposed to be easier on your throat that way. 

Then he discovered his "arm decorations"...he didn't mind the pulse reader since it glowed red, but he was ready for the IV to come out. 

Here he is enjoying some Honey Nut Cheerios..poor kid was starving! 

After he ate and drank and was able to keep it down, they took his IV out, gave him some more pain meds, and released him.  He also went to the bathroom great for me before we left.  He fell asleep again in the car on the way home, but was up again in time to enjoy the McD's that Nana brought over for him.  She also brought him some new shoes and a special prize for being such a brave boy.  Ryker his very own copy of "The Very Hungry Caterpillar" and a stuffed caterpillar that looks just like the one in the book.  He slept great through the night, even through the pain meds we had to give him every 4 hours and is doing very well today.  Thank you to all of you that were praying for us yesterday!  We really appreciate it!


Saturday, January 15, 2011

Upcoming Surgery

Ryker was born with hydroceles.  His pediatrician diagnosed him very early on.  At 6 months of age she referred us to a pediatric urologist at Riley, Dr. Kaefer.  Dr. Kaefer confirmed Dr. Anderson's diagnosis and said we should keep an eye on them.  In most cases, hydroceles resolve themselves by 18 months of age.  Dr. Kaefer saw Ryker again last January and they were still present.  He thought there was still a chance they would go away and he didn't want to jump the gun on surgery quite yet.  We went back again in October and this time, Dr. Kaefer was ready to do surgery.  The earliest date he had available was this coming Monday, the 17th.  So, Ryker will be having a hydrocelectomy at 1:00 Monday afternoon at Clarian West.  He won't be able to eat after 5 am that morning.  He can have clear liquids until 9 am.  I was dreading the anesthesia process above all else, but I might be dreading the food restrictions more now!  The only time he  gets cranky is when he is hungry or thirsty.  This could be bad!  I'm thinking about waking him up at 4:30 to feed him in hopes it will help a bit with the crankiness!  I will post how it all goes afterwards, but we would all appreciate your prayers in the meantime!  Thanks!

Spalala

Our church is starting a new women's ministry called Girlfriends of Grace.  There are going to be several different interest groups formed (such as a book club, movie club, scrap booking group, etc.)  I'm really looking forward to the book club!  The first event was held today.  It was a spa day.  There were at least 70 women that attended.  We had four different pampering stations to go to.  We did a foot soak, hand massage, facials, and dipped our hands in paraffin wax.  At the hand massage station, we all had the opportunity to write down all the burdens or areas of concern we are dealing with and put it in a box and give it to God.  At the end of the event, we prayed over the concerns and asked God to take the burdens from us.  It was a such a fun event!  We had a delicious brunch and really enjoyed the pampering too!  I didn't take many pictures, but here are a few from our facial station.
Emily (she opted out of the facial) and Katie

Theresa and Irene (she went for the full service and did the eye treatment too!)

Katie and I (My face was frozen in place from that mask so I look a little funky!)

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Let it Snow! Let it Snow! Let it Snow!

Tuesday was quite the snow day here.  I had a new cleaning client scheduled on the north side of town.  Ryker and I left around 7:45.  Over an hour later (for a 20 minute trip) we arrived at our destination.  The interstate was horrible and no better than the back roads.  We didn't go over 30 mph the entire way.  Ryker had gotten up early that morning and ended up falling back asleep on the way up there which was good.  He doesn't tend to be quiet for very long in the car so his nap helped me concentrate on the road a bit better. :-)  Thankfully, the roads were much better on the way back home.  Overall, we got about 4-5 inches which made for some nice shoveling when I got home.  After Ryker's nap he was dying to get out in the snow.  We suited him up in all his new snow gear and he (and Tucker of course) were off.  I opted to stay inside and watch all the "fun" from the warmth of our kitchen and family room.  The boys had so much fun.  When Ryker was ready to come in, he was full of stories of what went on out there.  Too funny!
All suited up and ready for some fun in the snow!

Having a "snow ball fight" with Tucker

Peeking through the window at me...so cute!

Happy 1st Birthday Kainen!

Saturday was Kainen's first birthday party.  Ryker was so excited to go.  Ryker and I picked out Kainen's gifts earlier in the week.  We got him some sippy cups just like Ryker's.  Kainen decided not too long ago that he liked Ryker's cups better than his and will only drink out of Ryker's when we're around. We decided he needed some of his own.  Ryker also picked out several of his favorite books at the store to get "Baby Kainen."  Emily watched Ryker for me on Friday while I cleaned a client's house.  He was so upset Friday morning when I wouldn't let him take the present with us.  He kept saying he wanted to read the books to Baby Kainen.  He couldn't wait for that party!  I was pretty proud of him at the party.  Staying out of the way and not opening presents for a 1 year old is pretty hard when you're a 2 1/2 year old boy that is obsessed with all things birthday!  Ryker only helped with one present when Auntie Em asked him to.  He did pretty good with the cake too.  Of course, after we finished singing "Happy Birthday" Auntie Em took a little too long to blow out the candle and Ryker thought she needed some help.  He ran up and blew it out for her.  He was very patient waiting for his cupcake though. 
Opening our gift

Ryker showing him the books he picked out

Checking out his new ride :-)

Stripped down and ready for that smash cake!

Trying to figure out what all this "birthday" stuff is about

This would be where Ryker "helped" Auntie Em with the candle
Yummy!  Once Em got him started he was all about it!

Ryker clearly enjoyed his cupcake too

Me and Em

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

kt design & photography

Since sending out our Christmas letters I have received many inquiries asking who did our family photo.  I'm pleased to share with all of you that my ever-so-talented sister-in-law, Katie Thacker, took it.  She has been taking pictures of Ryker since he was a baby and always gets GREAT shots.  She does awesome design work too.  In fact, she designed Ryker's baby announcement.  She is very reasonably priced and will spend plenty of time with you to make sure she has tons of great pictures for you to choose from.  The best thing is she charges an hourly rate and an editing fee, then you get a cd with all the pictures on it so you can order as many pictures as you want from your favorite developer.  This is much more cost effective than most photographers and much easier on your budget!  You can check her out on Facebook or email her at ktdesign&photography@gmail.com.  I'm also placing her logo and link on my blog.  You can just click on her logo on the right hand side of my blog and it will take you straight to her Facebook page.  Give her a try! Here are a few samples of her work.

I thought we'd start off with a few of Ryker ;-)


Ryker at 14 months


14 months

2 Year Pics

Fall 2010

Awesome Design Work!

Newborn Pictures

Seriously, how sweet is this picture!?!?

Family Pictures

She's great with kids of all ages

Engagement and Couple Pictures

Maternity Shots